Life Mission and Goal Setting Activity
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ASSIGNMENT: This is a take home activity that is due in class on April 20th, 1999. The process of developing clearly stated goals involves first getting in touch with some sense of a life purpose as a large framework within which to develop your goals. Secondly is to understand the difference between goals and activities, and learning how to state your goals in specific terms. | |
Your Life Purpose - Your Mission Statement | |
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Defining Specific Goals | |
Activities are a means to an end. The end is a goal. | |
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ASSIGNMENT: Mission and Goal statement | |
Step 2: Keeping in mind that a goal is a specific end result, list you five most important goals for each of the three areas of FAMILY (the kind you want to have), CAREER (the one you want to have), and PERSOAL DEVELOPMENT (your schooling). List goals in priority order, the top priority first. Step 3: Strengthening and clarifying your goals. | |
VISUALIZE END RESULTS: During a quiet time, relax and visualize yourself living the end result of each goal. Focus on
what you are doing, having, and most of all being; that is how you feel, how other feel, how relationships are affected. Note any conflicting feelings or thoughts that come up - thoughts about barriers to achieving the goal or about payoffs for not achieving it. CHECK THE SOURCE OF EACH GOAL: Are you sure this is your goal? It is very important to establish this. If you are trying to achieve a goal because someone else thinks you should, you can never give it the full level of
commitment, passion, and enthusiasm you give to goals that come form deep within you. The achievement of others' goals can never bring you the joy and fulfillment you deserve, and you will never reach the same level or quality of success as you will with your own goals. So analyze each important goal in their light. Have you chose this goal because it's what you think someone else would admire? For example, a parent figure, spo8se, influential friend, teacher? Or is it truly what you want in
your life? APPLY THE ENERGY/EMOTIONAL LEVEL TEST: If you have difficulty ranking a goal - or if at one point in the goal-setting or goal-implementing process, you are pulled between two alternatives - try the following analysis: First, be sure you have developed an adequate foundation for making the decision, though self- analysis of your life purpose and deepest desires and gathering the information you need. Then ask yourself the following questions: Then ask yourself, if the decision were based solely on emotion, which alternative would I choose? You will probably experience the greatest success when you go for the alternative that energizes you and brings up positive feelings, such as a sense of freedom,
well-being, growth/expansion or enthusiasm.
Credit to: Dr. Norma Carr-Ruffino, Professor, College of Business, SFSU | |